Quick Specs
- Brand: Lailokens Awen (made in Canada)
- Type: Hand-rolled 100% Canadian beeswax ritual spell candle
- Size: 4 1/4 inches tall x 1 1/4 inches wide, approx. 4-hour burn time
- Best for: Passion rituals, sacred sexuality workings, attraction spells, Mars magic
Sacred Sexuality in Ritual Magic Tradition
Sexuality has occupied a central place in Western esoteric and pagan practice from the ancient cults of Dionysus and Aphrodite through the ceremonial magic of Aleister Crowley’s Thelema, the fertility rites woven into Wiccan sabbat celebrations, and the Tantric traditions of South Asian practice. In Hermetic astrology, Mars governs raw vitality, desire, and physical passion, making Tuesday the traditional planetary day for rituals intended to kindle, amplify, or redirect sexual and passionate energy. Lailokens Awen’s Sexuality candle is formulated to work within this tradition.
Shawn Hebert crafts this candle using 100% Canadian beeswax and organic essential oils selected for their Mars correspondence and association with passion, physical vitality, and attraction. According to Banyen Books, the Sexuality candle is made on the day of Mars and in the hour of Mars, embedding that planetary timing into the wax itself. Hand-rolled rather than poured, each candle is a unique piece with the slight organic variation that distinguishes handmade ritual tools from factory-produced alternatives.
Passion Rituals and Practical Uses
Practitioners use sexuality candles across several practical intentions: reigniting passion in an established relationship, drawing a new sexually compatible partner, releasing shame or blocks around embodied sexuality, or conducting self-empowerment rituals focused on reclaiming physical confidence. In contemporary Wicca and Thelemic practice, these workings are considered sacred rather than frivolous, drawing on the idea that physical vitality and eros are divine forces worthy of ritual attention.
Red and deep orange are the classical colors for passion and sexuality in candle magic, reflecting Mars’s fiery, assertive energy. Herbs commonly paired with sexuality workings include damiana, red rose petals, musk root, and patchouli, all of which carry strong associations with desire and physical magnetism across folk magic traditions. The Lailokens Awen candle’s essential oil blend replaces the need to separately source and prepare these ingredients. For pairing options, browse my full Lailokens Awen candle collection.
How to Use a Lailokens Awen Sexuality Ritual Candle
How to use the Lailokens Awen Sexuality candle in passion and attraction ritual work.
- Set Your Ritual Space on a Tuesday
Place the candle in a heat-safe holder on your altar with complementary tools: red rose petals, damiana herb, garnet or red jasper, or a few drops of patchouli oil to anoint the candle base. Tuesday, Mars’s day, is traditional timing.
- State Your Intention Clearly
Hold the candle briefly and state your intention clearly, whether passion, attraction, self-empowerment, or connection. Clarity is essential in Hermetic candle magic. Light the candle and let the flame stabilize before beginning your ritual work.
- Burn in Sessions and Observe the Flame
Allow the candle to burn for 20 to 30 minutes per session, watching for a strong steady flame. Extinguish with a snuffer, never by blowing, to preserve the intention. Trim the wick to 1/4 inch before each relighting until the candle is spent.
The Tarot Fellow Standard
I carry this candle because sacred sexuality is a legitimate and longstanding thread in Western magical practice, and practitioners working in this area deserve a quality, purpose-built ritual tool rather than a repurposed generic red candle. The Lailokens Awen Sexuality candle stands apart because Shawn Hebert formulates the essential oil blend specifically for this intention, crafted on the day and in the hour of Mars, rather than applying a generic passion scent to beeswax. The hand-rolled Canadian beeswax construction makes each candle a unique piece with a natural, clean burn that respects both the ritual space and the practitioner. Explore my ritual supplies collection for herbs, oils, and tools to complement your working.
Frequently Asked Questions
This candle is crafted on the day of Mars and in the hour of Mars, embedding Martian planetary energy into the wax and oil blend at the moment of creation. Mars governs passion, desire, physical vitality, and sexual energy in Hermetic tradition.
Yes. Many use it for rekindling physical closeness, mutual desire, and playful erotic energy between established partners. The working functions whether the goal is attraction, reunion, deepening intimacy, or reclaiming joyful physical vitality.
The Lailokens Awen candles use organic essential oils, so they carry a light natural scent. The base beeswax has a gentle honey note. They are not heavily fragrance-scented; the oil blend is subtle, aromatherapeutic, and chosen for the intention.
Damiana, red rose petals, and patchouli are traditional herbs for passion in folk magic. Garnet, red jasper, and carnelian are crystals associated with sexuality and vitality. Any combination placed near the burning candle reinforces the working.








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