Quick Specs
- Type: Ritual aroma oil (fragrance oil blend)
- Size: 4 dram bottle
- Intended use: Candle dressing, charm bags, petition work, anointing ritual objects
- Best for: Commitment, fidelity, and relationship-strengthening intentions
What Stay with Me Oil Is For
Stay with Me is a ritual aroma oil blended for use in fidelity and commitment spellwork. The name reflects its traditional purpose: workings intended to strengthen existing bonds, encourage a partner to remain present and committed, or support the kind of sustained closeness that is easy to take for granted.
This is a ritual fragrance oil for external use. It is formulated for ritual use: dressing candles, anointing the edges of petition papers, adding to charm bags, and applying to ritual tools and objects. It is not intended for aromatherapy skin application or diffusing for therapeutic benefit. For altar and spellwork purposes, this formula fits directly into candle magic and ritual practice.
How to Use Stay with Me Ritual Aroma Oil
How to use Stay with Me ritual aroma oil in candle dressing, petition work, and charm bag applications.
- Dress a Candle for Commitment Work
Apply a small amount of oil to a pink or red candle by rubbing from the base toward the wick to draw the intention toward you. State your intention before lighting. A 4-dram bottle covers many sessions.
- Anoint a Petition Paper
Write the name or relationship on a small paper. Dab a drop of oil at each corner and once in the center. Fold the paper toward you and place it under a candle holder or inside a charm bag for the working.
- Add to a Charm Bag
Add a few drops of oil to the herbs and components in a charm bag for love or commitment. Re-dress the bag periodically to keep the working active. Store it near where you sleep or carry it on your person.
The Tarot Fellow Standard
I carry ritual aroma oils like this one because they fill a need in candle and folk magic practice that aromatherapy oils do not address in the same way. The formulas are designed for altar use, not aromatherapy, and that distinction matters for how you work with them. Browse my full ritual oils selection for other condition and formula oils across different working intentions.
Frequently Asked Questions
This is a ritual fragrance oil and is not intended for skin use. It is intended for dressing candles, anointing petition papers, and adding to charm bags. For skin-safe oils, choose a product labeled for that.
Pink and red candles are traditional for fidelity and commitment workings. Pink connects to sustained affection, while red is for strong passion and bonds. The right choice depends on your specific intention.
A few drops are enough to dress a candle or anoint a petition paper. Too much oil can cause uneven burning or flaring. The 4-dram bottle holds enough for many individual ritual sessions when used sparingly.
This is a ritual aroma oil, also called a condition oil in folk magic. It is a fragrance blend for altar and spellwork use, not for aromatherapy or therapeutic skin application.









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